As a photographer, I have spent years chasing the golden hour, learning how that first light can change an image.
When I started claiming that first quiet hour before the day began, when morning felt like a gift, I was deep in clueless, hot-flash menopause and all the things that come with it.
Everything and everybody irritated me. As a busy wife and mother putting out everybody else’s fires before 8 a.m., there was no room for me to think, create or breathe. I was drowning.
Then I discovered the power of that golden hour of light and quiet every morning, and it straightened my pearls. What kind of self-care could I make out of a golden hour or two just for me?
As a professional photographer, I seek out that soft, low-angled light to make an image sing. There is a golden hour before sunset, too, but with standard time returning and the clocks turning back, morning light is a timely thing to consider. Getting up at 4 in the morning for anything other than a pee break or a flight might sound crazy, but I eased into it, setting the alarm a little earlier each week until the groove came naturally. The key, it seems, is the WHY.
What Do You Do With a Golden Hour? Whatever You Want!
So I kept that hour to myself. I didn’t tell anybody, not even the people or the dog who lived in the house with me. Most days, my beautiful practice has stayed the same for more than two decades: I wake up, take three deep breaths, then meditate and pray for a bit. I ask for focus. I ask for answers. I take a little time to talk to my ancestors, too.